The 10 things children really want there parents to do with them
This article is so important I had to post it here. & nbsp;As parents we forget sometimes that the most important thing is that we just
be with our children, instead of running from activity to activity. & nbsp;One day, before I read this article, I asked my children what their & nbsp;favourite & nbsp;thing to do with my husband and I is. & nbsp;The answers & nbsp;really & nbsp;surprised & nbsp;me.
Princess in waitingI love & nbsp;wrestling & nbsp;with daddy
I love & nbsp;cuddling & nbsp;with you
Captain SubmarineI love & nbsp;wrestling & nbsp;with daddy
I love going on a private date with you
Viking BoyI love & nbsp;wrestling & nbsp;with daddy
I love & nbsp;cuddling & nbsp;with mommy
Really that is what they said, and I asked them all & nbsp;separately & nbsp;so they didn't hear & nbsp;each others & nbsp;answers! & nbsp;What is & nbsp;obvious & nbsp;is that they just want to spend personal & nbsp;uninterrupted & nbsp;time with us. & nbsp;Not more activities or more toys, but more us! & nbsp;The following article is so so important to understanding what children really
need in life.
The Top 10 Things Children Really Want Their Parents To Do With Them
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What do you think matters most to your children? You driving them to lessons and practices, or is it the smile and hug you greet them with after school? If you guessed the latter, you are correct.
Sixteen & nbsp;years of teaching and giving the same assignment every Mother's Day has led me to the exact same conclusion. You see, every Mother's Day I would ask my students to give me advice on being a mother. They were to think about things their mother or guardian did for or with them that made them feel happy or loved. The classroom would go silent as the students wrote intensely for longer than they had ever written before. Often smiles would appear on their faces as they reflected on the happy experiences they were remembering. After reading their responses I would add to my & nbsp;list & nbsp;all the ideas they mentioned. Surprisingly, many of the responses were the same. Year after year, in every country I taught, and in every type of demographic, the students were saying the same things and had the same message: & nbsp;It's the small things that their mothers did that meant the most and that they remembered. Many moms today feel as if they are not good mothers unless they are racing around, shuttling their children from lessons, to practices and back to lessons again. I've had mothers tell me that they want to give their children every opportunity they did not have. While this thinking might bring the mother some comfort, it really does not do the same for their child who is potentially feeling overextended, stressed and tired.
After speaking endlessly about this topic with my students, it became clear to me that children today are involved in too many activities and are in turn becoming less in touch with themselves and their families. & nbsp;In addition, my students told me they really wished for more time to "just play". Of course many of them enjoy their extra curricular activities, but it is not necessary they said to be allowed to do everything. What they enjoyed most, and what made their hearts happiest was when their mothers did simple things for or with them.
Here is a list of the top ten things students around the world said they remembered and loved most about their mothers.
- Come into my bedroom at night, tuck me in and sing me a song. & nbsp;Also tell me stories about when & nbsp;you were little.
- Give me hugs and kisses and sit and talk with me privately.
- Spend quality time just with me, not with my brothers and sisters around.
- Give me nutritious food so I can grow up healthy.
- At dinner talk about what we could do together on the weekend.
- At night talk to me about about anything; love, school, family etc.
- Let me play outside a lot.
- Cuddle under a blanket and watch our favorite TV show together.
- Discipline me. It makes me feel like you care.
- Leave special messages in my desk or lunch bag.
Children are incredibly wise and tend to see the world more simply than we do. Perhaps it is time we start taking their advice. & nbsp;Maybe we would all feel a little less stressed and be satisfied with the fact that doing little things really is… good enough.Label: Home
Economic Alert: If You’re Not Worried Yet…You Should Be
For the past four years I have been covering the progression of the global economic crisis with an emphasis on the debilitating effects it has had on the American financial system. & nbsp; Only once before have I ever issued an economic alert, and this was at the onset of the very first credit downgrade in U.S. history by S & amp;P. & nbsp; I do not take the word "alert" lightly. & nbsp; Since 2008 we have seen a cycle of events that have severely weakened our country's foundation, but each event has then been followed by a lull, sometimes 4 to 6 months at a stretch, which seems to disarm the public, drawing them back into apathy and complacency. & nbsp; The calm moments before each passing storm give Americans a false sense of hope that our capsized fiscal vessel will somehow right itself if we just hold on a little longer... I don't have to tell most people within the Liberty Movement that this is not going to happen. & nbsp; Unfortunately, there are many out there who do not share our awareness of the situation. & nbsp; & nbsp; Debt implosions and currency devaluation NEVER simply "fade away"; they are always followed by extreme social and political strife that tends to sully the doorsteps of almost every individual and family. & nbsp; The notion that we can coast through such a tempest unscathed is an insane idea, filled with a dangerous potential for sour regrets.
There are some people who also believe that the private Federal Reserve with the Treasury in tow has the ability to prolong the worst symptoms of the collapse indefinitely, or at least, until they have long since kicked the bucket and don't have to worry about it anymore (the 'pay-it forward to our grandkids' crowd) . & nbsp; I can say with 100% certainty that most of us will live to see the climax of the breakdown, and that this breakdown is about to enter a more precarious state before the end of this year. & nbsp; You can only stretch a sun-boiled rubber band so far before it snaps completely, and America's financial elasticity has long been melted away.
A pummeling hailstorm of news items and international developments have made the first half of 2012 almost impossible to track and analyze. & nbsp; The frequency at which negative information has surfaced is almost dizzying. & nbsp; However, a pattern and a recognizable motion are beginning to take shape, and, I believe, a loose timeline is beginning to form. & nbsp;
At the end of January, & nbsp;I covered the incredible nosedive of the Baltic Dry Index & nbsp;(a measure of global shipping rates that signals a fall in global demand) to historic lows. & nbsp; I pointed out the tendency of stocks and the general economy to crash around 8 months (sometimes a little longer) after the BDI makes such a dramatic downturn. & nbsp; Mainstream analysts, of course, attributed the fall to an "overproduction of ships", which is the same exact excuse they used when the BDI collapsed back in 2008 just before the derivatives bubble burst. & nbsp; It would seem that the cable TV talking heads were wrong yet again, as the international market facade quickly evaporates right in line with the BDI's almost prophetic knack for calling an economic derailment in advance. Here are some of the most important reasons why every American should be prepared for much harder days, especially before the end of 2012:
The European Union Is Officially Dead In The Water
Stick a fork in er', the EU is done! & nbsp; We are talking about full scale dismantlement, likely followed by a reformation of core nations and multiple collapse scenarios of peripheral countries. & nbsp; The writing is all over the wall in the wake of the latest election results in Greece and France, where, as alternative researchers have been predicting for some time, the battle between the government spending crowd and proponents of austerity has reached a fever pitch. & nbsp;
The Greeks and the French are royally pissed over draconian cuts in public programs and the destruction of pensions which have been a mainstay of their economies for quite some time. & nbsp; They are also furious over being sold off like collateral to the IMF and World Bank. & nbsp; Rightly so. & nbsp; Like the American taxpayer, the taxpayers of floundering EU nations are wrongly being held responsible for the financial mismanagement and fraud of their governments and global banks which have remained untouched and unpunished for their trespasses. & nbsp; The problem is, the voters of both countries are signing on to the socialist/quasi-communist bandwagon in response. & nbsp; In Greece, the Left Coalition Party, a splinter group of the traditional communist party, has now taken a primary position of power:
In France, voters have elected socialist Francois Hollande (a Bilderberg attendee), whose latest promise is to spend France into recovery through his "pro-growth agenda":
I have no doubt that the elections of the EU are as manipulated by elitists as they are here in the U.S., and I'm sure false paradigms abound. & nbsp; Have Europeans forgotten that it was overt government spending that set them on the path to calamity in the first place? & nbsp; Or, are they like Americans; just desperate for any change in the ranks of leadership? & nbsp; One would think that they would take note of the problems here in our country and realize that electing a socialist to replace another socialist is no way out of economic hardship.
Former officials like Nicolas Sarkozy may have claimed to be distanced from the socialist ideal, but, as with all globalist puppets, their actions did not match their rhetoric, and they have always supported policies of centralization and big government. & nbsp; The French and the Greeks have essentially replaced closet collectivists with outspoken collectivists, and will see NO relief from the crisis in the Euro-zone as a result of the political reordering. & nbsp; In fact, the stage has now been set for a volatile chain of dominos. & nbsp; Germany, which is the only economy left holding the EU together, has been unyielding on austerity cuts. & nbsp; A conflict between France and Germany is now inevitable. & nbsp; Neither will compromise their position, and I can see no other eventual result than a reexamination and perhaps abandonment of the EU charter. & nbsp;
How does this affect America? & nbsp; Being that international banks and corporations have forced our countries into interdependency through the engineered chicanery of globalization, any collapse in Europe is going to strike hard around the world, but the worst will hit the U.S. and China. & nbsp; Which is probably why China is disengaging trade away from the U.S. and the EU and focusing on other developing nations:
If you thought the Greek rollercoaster was a pain in the neck for investment markets, just wait until the whole of the EU is in a shambles! & nbsp;
Spain is next in line, with a 25% official unemployment rate and a massive black market economy forming. & nbsp; As I have been saying for years now, when governments disrupt the financial survival of the people, they WILL form their own alternatives, including black markets and barter markets. & nbsp; It is about survival. & nbsp; The Spanish government does not care much for these alternatives, though, and has now banned cash transaction over 2500 euros in a futile attempt to squeeze taxes out of the populace through digitally tracked payment methods:
Another major concern for Americans is the fact that Europeans are inching towards an abandonment of the dollar. & nbsp; Francois Hollande has openly called for an end to the dollar's world reserve status, and with a majority backing of the French people, he could easily make this happen, at least where France is concerned. & nbsp; All it takes is for a few key countries to publically and completely drop the Greenback and the dollar's reputation as a safe haven investment will be quashed. & nbsp; This could very well happen before 2012 is over.
QE3 Is The End
Here is the bottom line; U.S. growth is a theater of shadows. & nbsp; There has been no progress, no recovery, only the misrepresentation of statistics. & nbsp; Millions of Americans have fallen off unemployment rolls because they have been jobless for too long, which lowers the unemployment rate, but does not change the fact that they are still without work. & nbsp; Durable goods orders are dropping like an avalanche. & nbsp; U.S. credit has been lowered yet again by rating agency Egan-Jones. & nbsp; With China making bilateral trade deals in numerous countries on the condition that the dollar be dropped as the primary purchasing mechanism, and with the EU turning to economic mulch, the currency's safety is nonexistent. & nbsp; Traditional investors who cling to the idea that a falling Euro spells dollar strength will be sorely disappointed when the currency is suddenly being rejected in international currency markets.
The Federal Reserve has already stated that any signs of "relapse" into recession (the recession that we never left) will be met with all options on the table, including QE3:
I believe that QE3 will probably be announced this year (due in large part to trauma from Europe), and, that this will trigger a mass movement by foreign nations to drop the dollar as the world reserve. & nbsp; QE3 will be the straw that broke the camel. & nbsp; How exactly this will play out socially and politically, I do not know (I could take a good guess though). & nbsp; But, the technical results are predictable. & nbsp; The Fed will respond to the lack of treasury purchases by ramping up fiat printing in order to cover the ever increasing costs of the government machine. & nbsp; The Greenback will immediately lose a large portion of its value, at least in terms of imported goods, causing inflation in prices. & nbsp; Oil and energy prices will skyrocket if OPEC follows suit (which they will, though the Saudis may still honor dollars for a time). & nbsp; Doing any traditional business will become nearly impossible, and price inflation will dominate the lives and the minds of average unprepared citizens. & nbsp; & nbsp; & nbsp; & nbsp; & nbsp; & nbsp; & nbsp; & nbsp; & nbsp; & nbsp; & nbsp; & nbsp;
The amount of time that it will take for these difficulties to unfold is also not clear. & nbsp; We are operating in uncharted territory, and dealing with a collapse scenario on a truly planetary scale. & nbsp; My best advice is to assume that the avalanche will move fast.
While markets in our country have seen only mild disruptions so far this year, their solidity is predicated on a host of props and costume pieces, any one of which could pull the rug out from under America's suspension of disbelief if it strays but a little from the illusion. & nbsp; As long as the dollar holds, stocks can be infused with bailout juice through major banks. & nbsp; So can major companies and even desperate state governments on the verge of bankruptcy. & nbsp; The Dow will remain relatively friendly, and day traders and the public will remain happy. & nbsp; As soon as the dollar comes into question, all bets are off…
Does This Mean Doom, Or Just Another Bad Day?
The real beginning of today's collapse is tied to the events of 2008. & nbsp; The pace of it has been deceptive, but also, in a way, it is a gift. & nbsp; Over the past four years, I have personally seen the awakening of thousands of people that may have never had the chance if the system had gone into full spectrum breakdown right away. & nbsp; The question now is, how much longer can the U.S. wobble along on one wheel? & nbsp; In my view, and from the evidence I see in markets at the moment, not much longer. & nbsp;
It is hard to set aside any expectations that the next leg down will be easy to digest for the populace. & nbsp; The reality of our predicament is starting to hit home. & nbsp; All the tax return checks have been spent. & nbsp; The credit cards have been maxed. & nbsp; The new cars have been sold off and traded in for ghetto-mobiles. & nbsp; The good jobs have been replaced with Taco Bell slavery. & nbsp; A trip to see The Avengers is now the family vacation. & nbsp; And, the distractions of reality TV just aren't buttering our bread anymore. & nbsp; It's the little things at first that really signal the financial mood of a society, as well as reveal the more vital and looming issues just over the horizon.
All indicators suggest that this year will be unlike any other before. & nbsp; In 2008, we saw the first trigger events for the collapse. & nbsp; In 2008/2009, we saw the creation of the bailout culture, setting the stage for inflation and dollar disintegration. & nbsp; In 2010, we saw the first bilateral trade deal cutting out the dollar between China and Russia, which is now the template for trade deals all over the globe. & nbsp; In 2011, we saw the first downgrade of the U.S. credit rating and the crisis in the EU become epidemic. & nbsp; In 2012, I see not just another difficulty to add to the mountain, but a culmination of all these detriments to produce something entirely new; a vast and subversive realignment forcing many of us to take a more aggressive stance in the fight for an economically and socially free America.
Financial disasters have always been a convenient catalyst for a host of even more frightening obstacles, including civil unrest, and blatant totalitarianism. & nbsp; This is the cusp. & nbsp; It is one of those moments that people of later generations read about in awe, and sometimes horror. & nbsp; The "doom" is not in the event, but in the response. & nbsp; What we make of the days approaching determines the darkness that they cast upon the future. & nbsp; It is a test. & nbsp; It is not something to be dreaded. & nbsp; It is something to be seized upon, and dealt with, as great men and women before us have done. & nbsp; At the very least, we know that it is coming. & nbsp; That, in itself, could well seal our success…Label: Home
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